It’s amusing to see all the ‘just shot down another man that wasn’t good enough for me’ posts on my facebook wall from girls. They are bragging about the same thing that causes them pain.
Say there is 100 dollars for 100 people. But what if people won’t accept less than $10? Now you must have 10 happy people, and 90 people with nothing. This is how dating market works today.
Women won’t accept anything less than $10, That’s completely their perogative. But there’s not enough money to go around.
That’s why it’s hard to find a good guy. Every girl is competing for the same thing, and the pickier they are collectively, the harder it becomes. There can only be so many winners.
For guys like me that have finally, after years of toil and brutal treatment, entered that Glory-Land, the last ten percent, it’s a good life. But of course, now that he’s here, do you REALLY think he is going to just settle down? His options just exploded.
Girls wonder why guys cheat. Not every guy cheats — in fact the VAST majority won’t. BUTTTT the VERY fact that a girl has chosen a guy means that other girls are also very likely to have chosen that same guy also, and that means he has options. It makes it very easy for him to cheat.
How easy? About as easy for a girl that is in the prime of her life, getting attention left-and-right from guys, to stay single. When everyone wants you, why cash-out?
Hearing a girl talking about ‘shooting down’ a guy is like a famous NFL football-player bragging about winning in backyard football. He’s supposed to win. A hot girl is SUPPOSED to shoot down lame guys — but it doesn’t change her current dilemma, the very-high level she must compete at daily. Just like in the NFL, they are all fighting for the same top level of performance and it is BRUTAL. In the NFL, he loses sometimes, but it is that losing that lets him know just the level he is currently at.
A girl bragging about shooting down guys is only saying ‘I want it to be harder on me, I want to have to compete against MORE women in order to find a guy that I like‘. And there is nothing wrong with that….it is actually what women want.
It’s like Wall Street — at the top of the game, the competition is brutal. The people who are working the street won’t accept ANYTHING less than working 100 hours a week, even though they are the smartest people on earth and could easily find a well-paying job for 25% of the hours. Just like them, hot girls could easily have any guy but they WANT to suffer, they WANT to have to put in those 100 hours, that pain, that competition, because it shows them that what they have really matters. At that level, they expect to have to slave away, to toil and shed tears, to almost hate it in order to be able to have it. That is when you have reached TRUE value amongst men.
They won’t allow themselves to settle. They won’t allow another woman to have that top-notch man and them not. They HATE being forced to trade down. They are driven to work hard — to make it on Wall Street — if they have even been given the opportunity. Alas, most women never have the potential (the hotness) to be able to break into that ‘wall street’ level of guys. That makes that hard work even more prestigious.
They could EASILY have less, guys that don’t make them work. But they want it. They desperately want it. It’s a status symbol. For a hot girl, you REALLY cannot cause her enough pain, you really cannot be too unafraid that she will just up and quit because she can’t take the 100 hour weeks. Because those 100 hour weeks are the sign that she is where she needs to be, where she will eventually be ‘happy’. All you have to do is give her the right amount of compensation (love) to offset the pain she has been given. But if you give her an ounce of love, an ounce of investment banking bonus, before she has earned it, she doesn’t value it anymore. Use that bonus to tempt her, but don’t make it any easier on her.
For the bottom 90% of men, it’s a rough life. But for the top 10% of men, it really is a beautiful thing 
